If you noticed I rarely talked about issues in my blog because I hardly care about anything that revolves around me, which is bad. But that doesn't mean I don't know what is really going on around the world. Anyway, the issue I am going to discuss today is weight issue. I know I have wrote about this before quite some time ago, but recently my friend came and complained to me about his gf being lazy to exercise and getting fatter. Then, I realized how bfs always pressure their gfs in maintaining their slim and toned body.
The answer I got from him was "I tell her that because I love her, so that she will look nice.". Quite true, can't deny but I am very sure the MAIN reason is because YOU GUYS WANT A DAMN HOT GF who has body like Jessica Alba! Ain't that your dream girl guys?? ADMIT IT!!!!! Not to say it is wrong to demand for a pretty and hot gf, even we girls are attracted to tall, buff and muscular (not that muscular) guys. The difference here is at least we don't complained 24/7 that our bf is fat, has belly and force them to exercise or keep on whining about their body and looks. On the contrary, guys do that so often that sometimes we girls wanna scream to their ears that "WE COULDNT TAKE THIS ANYMORE!!!" but always ended up with a "smile". We may smile to you, laugh along when you guys comment about our body, but seriously every bit of your words pierced through our heart. Same thing here, my friend's gf may smile and joke around or shoot him back whenever he comments about her fats, but I'm sure somehow his words do make her sad.
I wanna make this clear, I am not here to debate about who is right and who is wrong. We have the rights to comment about each other, some said we need to take critics to improve ourselves - very true. Hence, what I want to say here to the ladies is since your guy wants you to look good, then look good for them. No harm slimming down a little to make your guy happy, besides I bet the one who gain the most will be you yourself.
First: Great body = Bf happy = you happy
Second: Great body = you look greater = you happy
Third: Great body = bf/you get compliments = both happy
Fourth: Great body = healthy body = less sickness = you happy
Fifth: Great body = you get more admirers = bf insecure = treats you better!
See! No harm loosing some weights or toning your body to make your bf and most important you yourself to be happy. So, I told my friend that maybe he can pull his gf along for exercise, maybe go for a jog, swim, badminton, tennis, anything! Also to the ladies, please la~ If you wanna slim down and if your bf insist you to join him for sports, just go, don't give lotsa reasons such as you don't know how to play and stuff, and don't give me ridiculous answers like "lazy la~ very hot la~ get dark la~". One thing I don't believe is loosing weight by eating less ONLY, in another word dieting. Why want to diet when we are blessed with good food in Malaysia? Eating less here means eating less of fatty, oily food but girls nowadays go on strict diet and eat a bloody bowl of salad and apple for the whole day. How ridiculous! Eating less also doesnt mean you have to entirely stop eating fatty and oily food, but just cut down on the portion. We really do not want to live a life where you can only eat tasteless food right? Come on people, Malaysia has nice cuisine; malay, chinese, indian, western food, anything you name it. Plus, why don't we enjoy food now since we HAVE to really cut down on all these nice food when we touched the age of 30?
I'm sorry, I don't plan to say eating healthy now is bad. Just that I can't afford to see girls misintepret the word dieting where they actually eat so little and eventually lead to aneroxic. The best solution to slim down is to eat less oily food and EXERCISE! Yes! exercise. Even if you are a food lover like me and doesnt want to go on a diet or cut down on fatty food, then the more you have to exercise to burn all these extra fats. Dieting alone will give you a slimmer body but a healthy body? I don't think so because you are just eating less and not absorbing any nutrition into your body, so what's the point of getting a slim body but feeling weak all the time?
Come on, we all want to have great body right? It is just the mind that is playing around, making us lazy and giving many excuses. Fight against it! Some of you may say that you do not really mind about how you look and if your bf doesn't like you the way you are then screw him right? True.. guys like this can be dump.. Hahaha.. but still keeping a healthy lifestyle isnt bad too. I know some of my friends who still look chubby but very healthy inside because she exercises very often. To skinny girls, don't think that you do not need to watch what you eat and not exercise because thin people can get high blood pressure too.
Now don't compare yourself with genetically skinny girls when it comes to body size okay? Don't be jealous that they get to eat as much as they want and still stay so skinny. They themselves have their dilemmas too when it comes to gaining weight. To the guys, too fat and too skinny aren't appealing to them. The difference here is it is soooooooo much easier for girls to shed their fats than a skinny girl who tries to gain weight despite eating like an elephant! So feel for them y'all.. feel for them. I was once a skinny girl who eats like crazy just to gain weight because I look like a freaking skeleton walking around and I know how hard is it to gain weight for skinny girls compare to girls who want to loose weights. One thing, if you wanna lose weight, better lose now when you are young because it will get tougher and tougher to shed all those fats as you age unless you work out 4hours per day like Madonna.
So that's about it. I hope I don't offend anyone here. I'm sorry if I do but I really don't mean it, I just want to tell you that we can't really blame bfs for complaining about our body (maybe they go overboard sometimes which annoys the hell outta me!), they just want us to look good and be proud of us. =) Obviously we ourselves wanna look SIZZLING HAAAAAWWWWWWWTTTT too right?!! LOL! Alright alright, this is getting further and I think I should sign off. Peace y'all. Before that, Happy New Year to everyone and for MMU students, all the best for your finals.
